Eating disorder

[durza998]

I just found out my girlfriend makes herself vomit after she eats. What should i do?!!?!

[ShowerThoughts]

Say that she's good how she is now, and that's she is not fat at all, or talk to your parents.

[ZaSz]

Say that she's good how she is now, and that's she is not fat at all, or talk to your parents.

Or talk to her parents and get them to help her.

[durza998]

she definitely isn't fat lol..i don't know why she thinks she is..i've told her i love her how she is...multiple times...but she still thinks bad about herself. another problem, i'm the only person who knows. so if her parents or my parents found out, she'd know it was me and would get mad at me.

[Capricorn]

Tell her to get professional help or to join some sort of group.

Edit: She may be reluctant, but tell her you will go with her.

[durza998]

should i just try to talk to her about it more and try to make/help her quit first? or should i go straight to the heavy ammunition?

[[JS]]

should i just try to talk to her about it more and try to make/help her quit first? or should i go straight to the heavy ammunition?

nah dude just talk to her about it calmly let her feel comfortable about talking to you about it.

then if she seems a little off about the hole situation set her straight..those a serious problems and its obvious you care about her so take care of it.

[Naum]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bulimia_nervosa

[Dan Cardin]

beat her?

[Simtoon]

One night in the bed will help :)

[marpis]

beat her?

lawl'd

i think a few smacks in the face do the job.
nah, not rly. make sure she feels herself beautiful. you must flatter her every day. and when you're having sex, pay attention to her body and look at her like she was Jessica Alba

[Torrent of Flame]

Yeh. If you dont look at her body or compliment her body alot, then start doing that. And if your kissing or w/e rub her body and stuff to make it known you like her body.

[Baked0420]

lmao, like Jessica Alba, haaa. Just try to keep telling her how beautiful she is, tell her that you don't like it when she throws up it worries you and you really want her to stop, you don't want anything bad to happen because you care a lot about her, and if she cares about you, I'm not saying she'll stop because I'm sure it's hard, but she'll at least think about the words you just said about caring for her and worrying, if she does care about you as much as you care for her.

If you want to help her stop, I don't really know how to help a bulimic person, but if I was to try, I'd just eat little things at a time with them, they'd probably feel more comfortable eating smaller quantities of food rather then a full course meal. And do that for a while, then try to make it a tiny bit bigger after a while and keep making it slightly bigger what you guys eat, but slowly, don't rush, and if she ever makes herself throw up from eating too much just eat less next time and try to keep doing that with her, see if it works, worth a try.

Well, whatever you try, good luck :) You might really need it, disorders aren't easy to cure without really knowing what you're doing.

[Dan Cardin]

why should he lie to her? No need to excessively compliment. If i were here, and were crazy like she was, then i would probably LET you find out that i was vomiting, just so that i would get excessive comments about my beautiful body. Which is why beatings, are the win. After a couple, she will learn. Philosophies and whatnot :).

[isacneo1]

you should tell her parents or any one that can help even if she gets mad at you

[noidea]

Tell her, you could rip her Esophagaus out, so she cant eat in the first place, if she doesnt stop =\

[King of the Nites]

You should definitely tell her parents even if she knows it was you that told them. Just tell her that is how much you truly care for her. In these cases telling her she looks perfect the way she is will not help. She sees herself as ugly and anything other people say will not affect her decision.

When you talk to her parents, make sure to tell them to not yell at her or punish her. Just make sure they know that she needs help.

Good Luck,
King of the Nites

[Pure1993]

I agree with most people here... inform her parents ASAP. Worst case scenario: She'll be completely pissed at you, she'll get forced into some rehab thing, and after that is over and she has come back to sanity, she'll thank for for putting her health above your desire to keep her at all costs. You may ruin your relationship, but you are going to improve her life drastically.

Honestly, what's more important? Your relationship, or her self-conscience and health? I would assume the second one, if you really love her.

Good Luck!

[durza998]

i've talked to her about it a lot, and she says she's gonna try to quit since it bothers me. i told her to keep me posted on whether or not she does/doesn't stop doing this...should i believe what she says? personally, i trust her a lot, but with this kind of thing even if she does stop (or at least tell me she's stopped) should i tell her parents anyway?

[Dan Cardin]

i told her to keep me postedbe browsing forums too long eh?

[MetalancA]

Grab her stomach to show her she isn't that fat. Then use some reverse psychology and call her fat multiple times. If that fails, throw some food at her to show her how nutritious it is. It's best not to get the parent's involved overtly, but a few hints should do the trick:

"Man, it smells like puke in here"
"Hey Mrs. Anderson I think your daughter needs to see you in the bathroom for a minute"

If all else fails a few supportive comments should do the trick:

"You're STILL hungry? Jesus christ honey save some for us"
"That sure is a hearty breakfast. Try not to throw it up and waste my money"
"You're fat."

Hope I helped!

[JPHamlett]

I agree with most people here... inform her parents ASAP. Worst case scenario: She'll be completely pissed at you, she'll get forced into some rehab thing, and after that is over and she has come back to sanity, she'll thank for for putting her health above your desire to keep her at all costs. You may ruin your relationship, but you are going to improve her life drastically.

Honestly, what's more important? Your relationship, or her self-conscience and health? I would assume the second one, if you really love her.

Good Luck!

i agree, if you truly love her then you will want her to get better even if it mean that you ruin the relationship.


and to everyone who suggested beatings

wth he came here for help and you just joke around about a serious matter.