Originally Posted by
Tim0suprem0
At first I was going to ask you for her address, so I could print and mail her the paragraph where you explained how you felt about her, because it would obviously have won her heart over.
But I have to be really honest with you dude. The fact that she claims some mystery person said something that is blatantly untrue about you, and refuses to believe you, who she was close with before that, just makes it seem like she's making it up. In fact, it sounds like she's really fucking manipulative, just going off what you've said here, about her getting close to you and then fucking you over. To me, it seems like she's using this story (which is now 3 years old...) to control you in a way. I know you like her, and she may very well like you, but it just sounds to me like it would be much better if you either
1) went all for it and either got it or got completely rejected
OR
2) just broke everything off with her
because this whole thing sounds so long and drawn out and painful I feel terrible for you.