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    Arg got rejected today heres the story of my sad sad life.


    Well last year i asked out this hot chick out,got accepted and after a week dumped her because of romours.After 2 months iliked her and kicked myself for dumping her.So 6 months after i discovered this i started to get closer until today when i decided to ask her out.

    First off she said she's think about it.So little later on she come up to me and said:

    "I'm not exactly sure if i like you that way(Repeated this 3 times in total) and iadmire you courage asking me out face to face but....."

    So i said:

    "Is that a rejection"

    So she said:

    "Sorry".

    So i gave her a hug and continued for next period.She says she want's to be "Good friends" so i'm ganna use that to my advanbtage and hopefully ask her out next year after were good friends!


    So that's my sad sad life...
    Well i'm jsut here to help where needed.

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    Happens all the time. Never to me, But i can imagine teh pain. ;(

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    Well I feel for you, but that has never happened to me..

    I always get what I want (Sorry, I was watching Blind Date last night, and some idiot guy said that to this girl..)
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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKanexX
    Happens all the time. Never to me, But i can imagine teh pain. ;(
    O your just too much of a stud aye kane.

    Dw about getting rejected. And i would say DONT ask her again. Ive been rejected but then been the best of mates and ive never really wanted to go out with her anymore. And she has a boyfriend i have a girl friend but we are still best of mates and hang out all the time together

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    this topic comes up way to much on rs cheating forum's

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    Quote Originally Posted by Renax
    this topic comes up way to much on rs cheating forum's
    hmm, I wonder why that is?

    THERE IS A CONNECTION

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    Quote Originally Posted by moparisthebest
    hmm, I wonder why that is?

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    haha yer... i dont really care for rejection, u get ver it it pretty quick, and you go and find some 1 else...

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxKanexX
    Happens all the time. Never to me, But i can imagine teh pain. ;(
    Kane, you fucking emo.

    Rofl :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pwnd
    Kane, you fucking emo.

    Rofl :P
    I'm not emo! You see any slit marks on my wrist? Do you see me punching the ground yellin' "I hate teh world!"..

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    Don't worry about it move on, when you start getting on discoteques you get rejected like 20 times everytime you go on a discot...
    And don't give me any bullshit about that, that is just because I'm a geek or something, because in town I'm the king haha or at least one of them..
    So just get used to it and move on ...

    Stay cool

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    It's been a long time since I did the dating thing... but here's my 10 cents worth:

    I always found if I tryed to 'chase' someone, it never ended well. I found the most effective method was to not press the whole couple thing and just be friends... This gave me a chance to get to know them and find out if they really were someone I wanted to date or not. If I was sure I really wanted to date a girl after I knew her quite well I had a sure fire method to get them crazy about me... maybe it will work for you too.

    The theory goes girls follow herd mentality, if you can get her group of friends to say positive things about you in the girls washroom, you have it made. Since you are probably interested in the babe of the group, you will have hard time getting noticed by her (in that way) so what you do is find the ugly duck in her group, and charm the socks off her. Don't go so far that everyone thinks you are chasing her, just enough to get her knees to buckle when you walk by... that's easy to do, I'll bet no one ever said anytihing nice to her before so just giver her honest complimemnts (everyone likes to be noticed... but be say TRUTHFUL things, the ugliest girl has positive traits you can compliment) and bingo... she will be your best advertisment ever. In the girls washroom she will keep bringing up your name with dreaming comments, and that will set the tone and before you know it the whole group will be giving you the eye when you pass them in the hall. You might find it hard to talk to the girl you are interested in, but your ugly duck will always want to talk to you, so start talking with her, now her friends can approach since you are already talking with one from their group.

    Since I know this will work, please show your apprieciation by naming your first born after me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flyboy
    Since I know this will work, please show your apprieciation by naming your first born after me
    Lmao, hahaa. Anyway, how do you know what they talk about in the girls washroom? You got tiny cameras in there or something?

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    Quote Originally Posted by inferno
    Lmao, hahaa. Anyway, how do you know what they talk about in the girls washroom? You got tiny cameras in there or something?
    *Haxors into Fly's Surveillance system*.. What the? Grandma's doing aerobics?.. Ahh! *Shoots Computer*

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    Quote Originally Posted by inferno
    Lmao, hahaa. Anyway, how do you know what they talk about in the girls washroom? You got tiny cameras in there or something?
    Eww, who'd do that?

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    i would...you know how much lesbians there are in schools!
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    Quote Originally Posted by HISTORY
    i would...you know how much lesbians there are in schools!
    You sick man..

    May i visit your school? :P

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    Flyboy is around 34 or something i think he has a job so many more "abilities" are accesible
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    Quote Originally Posted by HISTORY
    i would...you know how much lesbians there are in schools!
    Lol, and thats true actually, there's loads of lesbians and bisexuals in my school.

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    unlucky my friend maybe next time eh?

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    Im an Emo =P..

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    NOOO flyboy that's bad bad advice!
    I tried this tactic once, be friends with the ugly chick of the group. I tried to make it as obvoious as I could that I didn't like her (giving hints you know) but she still thought I liked her. The babe thought I was taken by her and kept telling me these things like "you know, my friend is a really nice person" and I was like "You can't be serious, shes the ugliest ever!!". Then the babe was like "well I don't want her feelings to get hurt so can you just pretend to like her? For me.?"..
    I decided that the babe wasn't worth that much. Take a different mentality to women, don't care if they like you or not. Try to be a nice person to them but don't make them #1 on your list. You will find you can play around with the hot women a lot more if they think you aren't interested in them. Then you can find out if you want them or not, and if you do just make sure that they like you too.. You know, the subtle hints like winking at them after making them laugh and watching their reaction. Or just generally playing around with them, you will know if they display a lot of affection towards you
    You gotta know that your personality is what a lot of chicks go by too... If they don't think you belong with their status group then you don't and the only thing you can do about that is change your personality. If you're a nerd, you have to know you're a nerd to change.

    If you know the mentality I'm talking about, remember the phrase "Bro's before hoes" Keep your mates above all women. Always respect your mother

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazy_Meerkat
    NOOO flyboy that's bad bad advice!
    I tried this tactic once,
    ROFL - Sounds like you bungled my advice big time. Its all about marketing! The whole idea of 'be nice to the ugly duckling' is to get her to promote you, not to get her thinking you want her. The second you cross the line you loose all chances with the babe because they ALL feel bad for the ugly duck and would never get in the way of the ugly duck's one chance at love. It's a hard balance to walk, but the rewards are AWSOME.

    I disagree with your suggestion that a person has to change to 'fit in the girls world'. Why be someone your not. If you succeed at faking your way in, once you get the girl, she will quickly discover who the real you is... then your back to square one. Stick with marketing who you are, and getting people to like the real you... then you never have to worry about screwing up, you just be yourself. (I am asuming that you arn't a mean stuck up bully... if you are CHANGE... not to fit in... change because you should to better yourself).

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    lol, where do you all come up with these crazy ideas ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazy_Meerkat
    NOOO flyboy that's bad bad advice!
    I tried this tactic once, be friends with the ugly chick of the group. I tried to make it as obvoious as I could that I didn't like her (giving hints you know) but she still thought I liked her. The babe thought I was taken by her and kept telling me these things like "you know, my friend is a really nice person" and I was like "You can't be serious, shes the ugliest ever!!". Then the babe was like "well I don't want her feelings to get hurt so can you just pretend to like her? For me.?"..
    I decided that the babe wasn't worth that much. Take a different mentality to women, don't care if they like you or not. Try to be a nice person to them but don't make them #1 on your list. You will find you can play around with the hot women a lot more if they think you aren't interested in them. Then you can find out if you want them or not, and if you do just make sure that they like you too.. You know, the subtle hints like winking at them after making them laugh and watching their reaction. Or just generally playing around with them, you will know if they display a lot of affection towards you
    You gotta know that your personality is what a lot of chicks go by too... If they don't think you belong with their status group then you don't and the only thing you can do about that is change your personality. If you're a nerd, you have to know you're a nerd to change.

    If you know the mentality I'm talking about, remember the phrase "Bro's before hoes" Keep your mates above all women. Always respect your mother
    After you've got enough experience you can see right through people and know if they like you or not... Trust me, its always good to have the upperhand .
    (Sounds wierd comming from a 15 year old eh?)

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    Quote Originally Posted by BenLand100
    After you've got enough experience you can see right through people and know if they like you or not... Trust me, its always good to have the upperhand .
    (Sounds wierd comming from a 15 year old eh?)

    Mopar: There is no connection what so ever, i'm living proof
    WARNING: do NOT, I repeat do NOT listen to this guy..
    benland is so genius to math that he cannot possible be able do anything other.
    This must be some math trick that he is pulling onto you, once you start taking his advises you will start eating the value of Pi burgers everytime you get to McDonalds (ca 22 div 7).

    But do listen to me.
    This trick only works if you got the looks of course, practised it myself .
    1: Find the most nice girl on your school, and play that you're not interested just poke around with her. At the parties maybe talk a little with her or so. Not to much maybe like 2 mins or something and then hurry on like you have better things to do.

    2: Get really drunk with her at some party get to talk with her, and allways indicate that you enjoy her looks and that she is nice. (to BenLand: do not notice math). And end up with the worst score line ever and then you're done.

    Or if you don't got the looks, go to a discot. and find the 200 kilo lady waving around in the middle and tell her that you want her right now. Then there's the problem on how to get her home..

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