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    Through a heated discussion with Yakman, Wizzup?, and BenLand100, oh and random inserts from R0b0t, I've started to wonder... In general, what do people think of sex?

    Is it about love, some kind of connection? Or is it about just gettin' er done?

    Please keep this on topic. No porn NSFW etc.

    Also, state whether you are a virgin or not.
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    sex is sex
    sex <> making love

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    sex is about feeling
    if you have strong feelings for the other person then it would be ok to have sex
    having sex just for fun is... well i dont know how to put it, but you dont get the full feeling of what it means to have sex
    sex could also be used to get to know one another

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    gettin' er done that's a good one

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    For me, it was about love. It's different for everyone, but I really cared about her. (I actually lost my virginity yesterday morning haha)

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    For me, it was about love. It's different for everyone, but I really cared about her. (I actually lost my virginity yesterday morning haha)
    On the first try? Damn.



    So, my opinion.. I think its about both. Eventually, you do need to get it done. I do think that the connection really is special. I love my gf, and we decided to. Never went back xD
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    Another thing, I have a friend who was sexually abused as a child, who isn't doing so good now. She has sex and does drugs and everything to try to hide what happened to her. I don't know how to really explain it, because it didn't happen to me, but it's like she has sex to think about the guy she's with right then, not the guy from when she was a kid. I don't know, though. She never really explained anything to me :[

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    Another thing, I have a friend who was sexually abused as a child, who isn't doing so good now. She has sex and does drugs and everything to try to hide what happened to her. I don't know how to really explain it, because it didn't happen to me, but it's like she has sex to think about the guy she's with right then, not the guy from when she was a kid. I don't know, though. She never really explained anything to me :[
    i also have a friend that was sexualy abused when he was young
    the man was sent to prison a couple of months ago and it was in the newspaper
    he seems ok and he is doing well as if nothing had even happened
    1 sec while i find the artical

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    virgin here, and proud of it.

    I'm going to stay a virgin until i get married because I believe in Jesus Christ, specifically his mother, the Virgin Mary.

    The catholic church taught me that sex is bad, evil, immoral and wrong, unless you do it while married. They made me feel really guilty whenever I fap, so I stopped doing it a few months ago.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    virgin here, and proud of it.

    I'm going to stay a virgin until i get married because I believe in Jesus Christ, specifically his mother, the Virgin Mary.

    The catholic church taught me that sex is bad, evil, immoral and wrong, unless you do it while married. They made me feel really guilty whenever I fap, so I stopped doing it a few months ago.
    They be trollin'.. they hatin'... they all tryin to catch me trollin' tryin' to catch me trollin'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    virgin here, and proud of it.

    I'm going to stay a virgin until i get married because I believe in Jesus Christ, specifically his mother, the Virgin Mary.

    The catholic church taught me that sex is bad, evil, immoral and wrong, unless you do it while married. They made me feel really guilty whenever I fap, so I stopped doing it a few months ago.
    I laughed all the way ;o


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    Quote Originally Posted by Nava2 View Post
    They be trollin'.. they hatin'... they all tryin to catch me trollin' tryin' to catch me trollin'.

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    For me it was both. I both had feelings for the girl i had sex with and i also just wanted to get some action. However I wouldn't have sex with someone i really didn't know very well. The sex is much better if you have a good connection with the person.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    virgin here, and proud of it.

    I'm going to stay a virgin until i get married because I believe in Jesus Christ, specifically his mother, the Virgin Mary.

    The catholic church taught me that sex is bad, evil, immoral and wrong, unless you do it while married. They made me feel really guilty whenever I fap, so I stopped doing it a few months ago.
    Yakman, now you are just being down right pathetic making fun of people like that...


    I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we both are still virgins and we are waiting until we get married (assuming that we do). There are several reasons why too. I have seen several of my friends lose relationships because it becomes only about sex. I would rather have it that we don't have to have sex and we can stay together knowing that sex isn't the only reason why we are together. So that when we do have sex it makes it that much more enjoyable.

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    I'm a virgin. I'm waiting for the right person. Sex <> Love. People say Sex enhances a relationship, and it may do if you are in the relationship for love, otherwise it is just sex, emotionally detatched sort of stuff.

    I have been offered sex ~5 times and have said no every time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Torrent of Flame View Post
    I'm a virgin. I'm waiting for the right person. Sex <> Love. People say Sex enhances a relationship, and it may do if you are in the relationship for love, otherwise it is just sex, emotionally detatched sort of stuff.

    I have been offered sex ~5 times and have said no every time.
    y?
    didnt you like them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shuttleu View Post
    y?
    didnt you like them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TorrentOfFlame
    I'm waiting for the right person.
    1 of them was a bit ugly, but the others were pretty hot.
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    when i was a virgin, i thought it was all about love and emotion, now iv had sex i see it purly physical and i cant see why it shouldnt be enjoyed casually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HyperSecret View Post
    Yakman, now you are just being down right pathetic making fun of people like that...


    I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we both are still virgins and we are waiting until we get married (assuming that we do). There are several reasons why too. I have seen several of my friends lose relationships because it becomes only about sex. I would rather have it that we don't have to have sex and we can stay together knowing that sex isn't the only reason why we are together. So that when we do have sex it makes it that much more enjoyable.
    If you are searching for reason to stay together, you are probably not doing it the right way... I don't see how not having sex really matters in your quest for reasons to stay together. If you've known her for over 5 years, I can hardly imagine you're having the relationship just for sex, without having sex...?



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    Sex is just sex, in my eyes. Yes, you should love the person to do it, but it isn't a necessity. As long as you are using protection, I could care less.


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    yakman, have your say.
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    I must reiterate, I took a sacred oath, there were the words of my pledge.

    "Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate, and my future children to a lifetime of purity including sexual abstinence from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship."



    If you have sex before marriage your penis will rot off and fall into hell where it will be ravaged by hounds for all eternity.

    Your balls will droop until they are dragging along the floor and other people can just kick them around, then when you go to hell the devils will strangle you with them.


    I obviously dont want that happen because I need my penis to fap
    ... of course I dont fap anymore.


    luckily for me, the church provides me with many passtimes to distract me from the evil urges that are there because Eve at the fruit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    I must reiterate, I took a sacred oath, there were the words of my pledge.

    "Believing that true love waits, I make a commitment to God, myself, my family, my friends, my future mate, and my future children to a lifetime of purity including sexual abstinence from this day until the day I enter a biblical marriage relationship."



    If you have sex before marriage your penis will rot off and fall into hell where it will be ravaged by hounds for all eternity.

    Your balls will droop until they are dragging along the floor and other people can just kick them around, then when you go to hell the devils will strangle you with them.


    I obviously dont want that happen because I need my penis to fap
    ... of course I dont fap anymore.


    luckily for me, the church provides me with many passtimes to distract me from the evil urges that are there because Eve at the fruit.
    tell god im sorry, and be forgiven. religion has no place in this thread.
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    Ok guys can i ask your ages ?

    im 19 not a virgin, i lost mine when i was 16, good realshonshp good person to lose it with, now im in university i think sex is sex one night stands work great at uni.

    i like sex ....

    but obviosuly if i meet a person that interests me more then wanting to get my dick wet i'l get to know her till then im happy the way i am :/

    ps this is the uk here i can legally drink ect



    ALSO in words of the sexually abused noted - i do drugs so dont just say people turn to drugs ect, im sensbile i do a degree i work and i have fun but i still have a good work level
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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeyboy29 View Post
    tell god im sorry, and be forgiven. religion has no place in this thread.
    Religion is relevant because it is a big part of my decision not to have sex.
    I am very sorry if it offends you, I was simply trying to help the discussion.
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