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    I think sex should be about love, but i think it should be within the confines of marriage.

    I lost my virginity 3 years ago to a young woman whom i loved very much at the time. It took a while but our relationship began to sour, i was well... i guess you could say addicted. She had a relatively low drive and would be happy with 1ce or less a week, whereas i wanted it everyday, at least. It began to be the source of many fights and i felt like that desire was really consuming me. I ended up in a messy breakup with this chick... (she still had my wii games, yea!) It just wasnt worth it. Im now dating a lady whom i have been with for a bit over a year and i love her very much. When we began dating we made the deal that sex was off limits unless we were to get married. that means no OS or MS, nada. Its a good thing we did because ive come to know her very well and lover her very much. Good thing for me, she MB's and has probably a higher desire than i do. ill probably propose within the next few months. like any of you care :-P

    and to the retard that said religion has no place in this thread.... really?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    Religion is relevant because it is a big part of my decision not to have sex.
    I am very sorry if it offends you, I was simply trying to help the discussion.
    oh no, it didn't offend me at all. and i am really sorry but, religion....

    i was brought up a christian, going to church and all that. went to a highschool which you had to go to church 50 times a year to get into. the whole works. then i started to explore, and think about different places, people and ideas. and i found it very hard to belive in religion anymore.
    i belive in a 'God'.

    Anyway, i started to do some wrong things, the typical teenager things, and i always found myself beliving God could get me out of it. and when shit goes wrong the first thing i do is ask God.

    anyway, dont know why i told you that.
    yakman, please forgive me if i am wrong/ offend but arnt you homo-sexual?
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    hey im a vergin, and i intend to be till i atleast find that special someone, but im doing it for me, not cause i think its nessisarly the right thing to do. It dosnt matter to me at all if shes a vergin, just as long as she dosnt have aids ;D

    And not that ive read the bible a whole lot but i have never read anything about sex before marrige being wrong. Could any of you avid bible readers show me a verse from biblegaitway that directly says that sex before marrige is wrong?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeyboy29 View Post
    tell god im sorry, and be forgiven. religion has no place in this thread.
    True.
    Religion gets in the way of SOO many things.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HyperSecret View Post
    Yakman, now you are just being down right pathetic making fun of people like that...


    I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we both are still virgins and we are waiting until we get married (assuming that we do). There are several reasons why too. I have seen several of my friends lose relationships because it becomes only about sex. I would rather have it that we don't have to have sex and we can stay together knowing that sex isn't the only reason why we are together. So that when we do have sex it makes it that much more enjoyable.
    you have been with her for 5 years and you still havent asked her to marry you
    take her out somewhere special and ask her to marry you
    if you have been together for 5 years then im sure she wouldnt say no
    Quote Originally Posted by Z3r0Grav View Post
    Ok guys can i ask your ages ?

    im 19 not a virgin, i lost mine when i was 16, good realshonshp good person to lose it with, now im in university i think sex is sex one night stands work great at uni.

    i like sex ....

    but obviosuly if i meet a person that interests me more then wanting to get my dick wet i'l get to know her till then im happy the way i am :/

    ps this is the uk here i can legally drink ect



    ALSO in words of the sexually abused noted - i do drugs so dont just say people turn to drugs ect, im sensbile i do a degree i work and i have fun but i still have a good work level
    i am 15 and like i said i am still a virgin

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    meh for you people who aren't in IRC, I'm no virgin. I think sex is just a milestone in teenagers lives to say 'oh i did it' just to be 'cool'

    edit: i just turned 15, had my first sex when i was 14 years and 2 days.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rubix View Post
    meh for you people who aren't in IRC, I'm no virgin. I think sex is just a milestone in teenagers lives to say 'oh i did it' just to be 'cool'

    edit: i just turned 15, had my first sex when i was 14 years and 2 days.
    You lie.
    You are 15, and she was 12 when you sexed her. Without a condom. And you said you premature-ejaculated in her.. she is going to get babies and you are gonna be a pedophile and go to jail.


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    For me, sex is about passion and love for eachother. If you just take one more step each time, it will eventually just happen. It's your own choice whether to have sex or not. And NO, absolutely not 'getting her done' for me.. If that's what you think, you're a childish bastard.
    Also, not a virgin.

    Quote Originally Posted by Harry View Post
    You lie.
    You are 15, and she was 12 when you sexed her. Without a condom. And you said you premature-ejaculated in her.. she is going to get babies and you are gonna be a pedophile and go to jail.
    AFAIK, when a girl is 12, she does not produce 'eggs' yet. And, a girl/women is only fertilizable about 3 days before and 1 day after the ovulation. So if it was like 5 days after the girl ovulated, the chances are nihil you get a child.

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    My first time was definitely not love, you know the story, no need to go into it, unless someone REALLY wants to hear it. Anyway.. I've regretted that ever since. With my current girlfriend (we'll be dating a year in about a week or two ), it's all about love (most of the time ), and that's how I think it should be. That is, after all, when it's the best.

    Also, Nava2, you would be the one to start a discussion on sex.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jakeyboy29 View Post
    yakman, please forgive me if i am wrong/ offend but arnt you homo-sexual?
    no thats yachoman


    Quote Originally Posted by lancerawks View Post
    And not that ive read the bible a whole lot but i have never read anything about sex before marrige being wrong. Could any of you avid bible readers show me a verse from biblegaitway that directly says that sex before marrige is wrong?

    it doesnt say it so explicitly, but it is strongly suggested.

    Quote Originally Posted by Hebrews 13:4
    Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.

    in this short story, a bride is rejected because she is not a virgin.

    Quote Originally Posted by Deuteronomy 22:13-29
    If any man takes a wife, and goes in to her, and then spurns her, and charges her with shameful conduct, and brings an evil name upon her, saying, `I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her the tokens of virginity,' then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the tokens of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate; and the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, `I gave my daughter to this man to wife, and he spurns her; and lo, he has made shameful charges against her, saying, "I did not find in your daughter the tokens of virginity." And yet these are the tokens of my daughter's virginity.' And they shall spread the garment before the elders of the city. Then the elders of that city shall take the man and whip him; and they shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver, and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought an evil name upon a virgin of Israel; and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days. But if the thing is true, that the tokens of virginity were not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has wrought folly in Israel by playing the harlot in her father's house; so you shall purge the evil from the midst of you. "If a man is found lying with the wife of another man, both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman, and the woman; so you shall purge the evil from Israel. "If there is a betrothed virgin, and a man meets her in the city and lies with her, then you shall bring them both out to the gate of that city, and you shall stone them to death with stones, the young woman because she did not cry for help though she was in the city, and the man because he violated his neighbor's wife; so you shall purge the evil from the midst of you. "But if in the open country a man meets a young woman who is betrothed, and the man seizes her and lies with her, then only the man who lay with her shall die. But to the young woman you shall do nothing; in the young woman there is no offense punishable by death, for this case is like that of a man attacking and murdering his neighbor; because he came upon her in the open country, and though the betrothed young woman cried for help there was no one to rescue her. "If a man meets a virgin who is not betrothed, and seizes her and lies with her, and they are found, then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young woman fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has violated her; he may not put her away all his days.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Corinthians 7:2
    But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Corinthians 6:13
    Food for the stomach and the stomach for food”—but God will destroy them both. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Corinthians 10:8
    We should not commit sexual immorality, as some of them did—and in one day twenty-three thousand of them died.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Corinthians 6:18
    Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Corinthians 5:1
    It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that does not occur even among pagans: A man has his father’s wife.
    Quote Originally Posted by Acts 15:20
    Instead we should write to them, telling them to abstain from food polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from the meat of strangled animals and from blood.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jude 7
    In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire.
    Quote Originally Posted by 1 Thessalonians 4:3
    It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality
    Quote Originally Posted by Colossians 3:5
    Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ephesians 5:3
    But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.
    Quote Originally Posted by Galatians 5:19
    The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery
    Quote Originally Posted by 2 Corinthians 12:21
    I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have indulged.

    point made, the bible does not like sex before marriage.
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    Sex is different than making love to me. I feel emotionally attached to the girl I'm in love with and everyone else is just purely physical.

    No, I don't cheat. We've taken breaks from each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yakman View Post
    If you have sex before marriage your penis will rot off and fall into hell where it will be ravaged by hounds for all eternity.
    Family guy much?

    99_ lol.
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    Outside relationship - one night fun
    In relationship - many nights fun

    I have found my lifepartner and we both agree that sex can be a very amusing passtime, but also a strong expression of love. I personally feel that by saying "I love you" one express love as a feeling towards somebody, and by making love one expresses more lust and passion than pure, innocent caring.

    I think this video makes us understand, gives us answers to these difficult questions of life.

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    wats sex...?

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    Quote Originally Posted by noidea View Post
    Family guy much?

    99_ lol.
    What'd I do?

    Oh, by the way. I might be inactive >.>

    When we had sex we didn't use protection or anything, so.. yeah. I might be a 15/16 year old dad. I'll find out in about a week. =X

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    Oh good luck with that 99_ :S hope shes not knocked up.

    and thanks Yakman, though you only proved my point. the bible dosnt say sex before marrige is wrong. it says sexual imorality is wrong and then fails to define what sexual imortality is. it appears it depends on the culture to what exactly sexual imorality is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mormonman View Post
    wats sex...?
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_intercourse
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    I'm 12 and what is this?

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    The topic we are discussing?
    I do visit every 2-6 months

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    I don't know how to read those evil words...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zasz View Post
    The topic we are discussing?
    It's a /b/ thing.. >.>

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    99_ : :< Knocked up is a great movie. I hope you didn't umm, ejaculate into, umm, her genitels.
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    a few quotes from wiki
    Sex relieves stress, boosts the immune system with higher levels of immunoglobulin A, improves cardiovascular health, increases self-esteem, improves intimacy, reduces pain by production of the hormone oxytocin, reduces the risk of prostate cancer, strengthens pelvic muscles, and promotes good sleep.[26] In addition, sex improves the sense of smell and urinary bladder control.[27]
    a significant health benefit of sex is lower blood pressure and overall stress reduction
    People who have a "good and healthy sex life" may improve their body's immune system.[26] Those who engage in sex once or twice a week have been linked with higher levels of an antibody called immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect the body from getting colds and other infections
    Sexual intimacy, as well as orgasms, increases levels of the hormone oxytocin, also known as "the love hormone" which helps people bond and build trust
    During sex, pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels offer benefits for women.[26] More sexual pleasure is expected to result, strengthening of the area, and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life
    Men who have frequent ejaculations, especially men in their 20s, may reduce their risks of prostate cancer later in life
    men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later
    frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men
    those last three is my reason for fapping

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    amen to that shuttleu, i wonder if its better to start even younger
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    Quote Originally Posted by noidea View Post
    99_ : :< Knocked up is a great movie. I hope you didn't umm, ejaculate into, umm, her genitels.
    >.>

    oic. haha well.. I really might've gotten her pregnant. I definitely didn't pull out.. o.o

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