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    I have sex averaging at least once a day. On a day to day basis, rarely we don't have sex, mostly we have sex, often twice a day (not so much with work now). Of course those are all roommates permitting and what not. We use protection every single time (I'm not retarded...), we even used condoms when she was on the pill. I'm 20 now, lost my virginity when I was 16 to a girl I now hate tremendously...but I went out with her for a year and half, then started hating, then dumped, then hated way more.
    Been going out with current girlfriend for a year and six months. I met her online, she now lives with me. We talked for 5 months before we met in person, then it only took 2 nights before we had full on sexual intercourse, of course, protected.

    I like sex, it's fun, and I like making girls make all kinds of funny noises and faces. lol, which happens all the time with her. As for marriage, I did it before, as for love, I loved both girls before I did them, but then I did the one I hated a little after I started hating her because I hated her and I thought if I did her and was an ass about it she would hate me and leave me alone (plan didn't work, but I got some sex outta her (bad sex though)).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brain View Post
    ...but then I did the one I hated a little after I started hating her because I hated her and I thought if I did her and was an ass about it she would hate me and leave me alone (plan didn't work, but I got some sex outta her (bad sex though)).

    End of story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    >.>

    oic. haha well.. I really might've gotten her pregnant. I definitely didn't pull out.. o.o
    Why would you do that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rasta Magician View Post
    sex is sex
    sex <> making love

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    sex = gettin it done.
    making love = connection, meaningful, etc.
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    I have sex with my hand alot (heaps of hand cramps)

    but virgin here and i wanna DO IT im serious!!

    I rekon sex is cool with someone u love .


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    Quote Originally Posted by rogue poser View Post
    I think sex should be about love, but i think it should be within the confines of marriage.

    I lost my virginity 3 years ago to a young woman whom i loved very much at the time. It took a while but our relationship began to sour, i was well... i guess you could say addicted. She had a relatively low drive and would be happy with 1ce or less a week, whereas i wanted it everyday, at least. It began to be the source of many fights and i felt like that desire was really consuming me. I ended up in a messy breakup with this chick... (she still had my wii games, yea!) It just wasnt worth it. Im now dating a lady whom i have been with for a bit over a year and i love her very much. When we began dating we made the deal that sex was off limits unless we were to get married. that means no OS or MS, nada. Its a good thing we did because ive come to know her very well and lover her very much. Good thing for me, she MB's and has probably a higher desire than i do. ill probably propose within the next few months. like any of you care :-P

    and to the retard that said religion has no place in this thread.... really?
    Same thing happened to my friend with the whole sex sort of 'consuming' the relationship but they had about equal sex drives and she cheated on him... Which is what I was trying to state earlier.

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    you have been with her for 5 years and you still havent asked her to marry you
    take her out somewhere special and ask her to marry you
    if you have been together for 5 years then im sure she wouldnt say no
    i am 15 and like i said i am still a virgin

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    What'd I do?

    Oh, by the way. I might be inactive >.>

    When we had sex we didn't use protection or anything, so.. yeah. I might be a 15/16 year old dad. I'll find out in about a week. =X
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    The only 100% effective method of birth control is abstinence, so unless you're intending to become a parent, that's the best avenue.

    I also believe that what you think about sex today will be different that what you think about it 15 years from now.
    I assume that almost everyone here would like to get married at some point. If you wait until you're married, then you're guaranteed to have the best sex of your life with your spouse. It may seem like sex is "only physical" now, but what if you've had 3 or 4 or 5 partners, then meet someone that you might actually want to spend the rest of your life with? What if the sex isn't quite as good as an experience you've had before? Would you start wandering around, looking for a mistress, or a prostitute, or something else that could destroy an otherwise great marriage? Would you dump a girlfriend, or divorce your spouse solely because the "physical connection" isn't there?

    Part of the reason the divorce rate is so high is because many people get married based on infatuation and physical attraction, rather than on a lasting compatibility of shared values and true love. The problem with infatuation and physical attraction is that they are transient. The infatuation fades, and the newness of the physical attraction wanes over months and years. It's a normal physiological process, just like that infatuation and attraction are. What then?

    When over half of all new marriages end in divorce within 3 years, I think it's pretty clear that sex and attraction aren't just physical. People emotionally invest a lot into it. And even if you don't think you do, your spouse probably will. Perhaps they overlooked some of your flaws because you were very attractive to them. Perhaps you did the same.

    In most cases, there is a pretty strong imbalance between the male and female libido. And those women with strong libidos often don't make good spouses. They say that tramps make good girlfriends but bad wives. My dad was married three times, and the first two cheated on him. He had 3 kids with the second one, all of which were devastated by their divorce. He was out working 12 hour days to keep his family housed, clothed, and fed, and she was at home catting around behind his back. The first time he actually tried to patch things up with her for the sake of the kids, and 6 months later she was at it again with another guy.

    Sex should be based on respect, trust, and love, not just physical attraction. The pain caused by getting it backwards is not worth the temporary pleasure.


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    Quote Originally Posted by tarajunky View Post
    The only 100% effective method of birth control is abstinence, so unless you're intending to become a parent, that's the best avenue.

    I also believe that what you think about sex today will be different that what you think about it 15 years from now.
    I assume that almost everyone here would like to get married at some point. If you wait until you're married, then you're guaranteed to have the best sex of your life with your spouse. It may seem like sex is "only physical" now, but what if you've had 3 or 4 or 5 partners, then meet someone that you might actually want to spend the rest of your life with? What if the sex isn't quite as good as an experience you've had before? Would you start wandering around, looking for a mistress, or a prostitute, or something else that could destroy an otherwise great marriage? Would you dump a girlfriend, or divorce your spouse solely because the "physical connection" isn't there?

    Part of the reason the divorce rate is so high is because many people get married based on infatuation and physical attraction, rather than on a lasting compatibility of shared values and true love. The problem with infatuation and physical attraction is that they are transient. The infatuation fades, and the newness of the physical attraction wanes over months and years. It's a normal physiological process, just like that infatuation and attraction are. What then?

    When over half of all new marriages end in divorce within 3 years, I think it's pretty clear that sex and attraction aren't just physical. People emotionally invest a lot into it. And even if you don't think you do, your spouse probably will. Perhaps they overlooked some of your flaws because you were very attractive to them. Perhaps you did the same.

    In most cases, there is a pretty strong imbalance between the male and female libido. And those women with strong libidos often don't make good spouses. They say that tramps make good girlfriends but bad wives. My dad was married three times, and the first two cheated on him. He had 3 kids with the second one, all of which were devastated by their divorce. He was out working 12 hour days to keep his family housed, clothed, and fed, and she was at home catting around behind his back. The first time he actually tried to patch things up with her for the sake of the kids, and 6 months later she was at it again with another guy.

    Sex should be based on respect, trust, and love, not just physical attraction. The pain caused by getting it backwards is not worth the temporary pleasure.
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    This is quite a respectful and wise post in this thread. I very much so agree with it. I have seen both the relationships that struggle because they are based on physical attraction and I have seen relationships based on emotional (not lust/ecstasy/pheromones/adrenaline) and psychological attraction. Don't get me wrong, there is usually quite a bit of eros love still in play in the second example. I am yet to see or hear about any relationship that ends up keeping strong or is healthy that was based on physical attraction (sex) alone. But to conquer eros first there must be phileo and then agape. These three together make up love (= + devotion).
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    Quote Originally Posted by tarajunky View Post
    The only 100% effective method of birth control is abstinence, so unless you're intending to become a parent, that's the best avenue.

    I also believe that what you think about sex today will be different that what you think about it 15 years from now.
    I assume that almost everyone here would like to get married at some point. If you wait until you're married, then you're guaranteed to have the best sex of your life with your spouse. It may seem like sex is "only physical" now, but what if you've had 3 or 4 or 5 partners, then meet someone that you might actually want to spend the rest of your life with? What if the sex isn't quite as good as an experience you've had before? Would you start wandering around, looking for a mistress, or a prostitute, or something else that could destroy an otherwise great marriage? Would you dump a girlfriend, or divorce your spouse solely because the "physical connection" isn't there?

    Part of the reason the divorce rate is so high is because many people get married based on infatuation and physical attraction, rather than on a lasting compatibility of shared values and true love. The problem with infatuation and physical attraction is that they are transient. The infatuation fades, and the newness of the physical attraction wanes over months and years. It's a normal physiological process, just like that infatuation and attraction are. What then?

    When over half of all new marriages end in divorce within 3 years, I think it's pretty clear that sex and attraction aren't just physical. People emotionally invest a lot into it. And even if you don't think you do, your spouse probably will. Perhaps they overlooked some of your flaws because you were very attractive to them. Perhaps you did the same.

    In most cases, there is a pretty strong imbalance between the male and female libido. And those women with strong libidos often don't make good spouses. They say that tramps make good girlfriends but bad wives. My dad was married three times, and the first two cheated on him. He had 3 kids with the second one, all of which were devastated by their divorce. He was out working 12 hour days to keep his family housed, clothed, and fed, and she was at home catting around behind his back. The first time he actually tried to patch things up with her for the sake of the kids, and 6 months later she was at it again with another guy.

    Sex should be based on respect, trust, and love, not just physical attraction. The pain caused by getting it backwards is not worth the temporary pleasure.
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    I personally thing that sex contains a connection, dependent on the situation. I don't really agree with one night stands at this point in my life, but yeah.
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    OMFG ITS LIKE SEX ITS MEANT TO BE HAD LIKE OMFG OMFG OMFG SEX SEX SEX. EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO LIKE DO A HEADBANG AND SLAP HER ASS 'CAUSE YOU KNOW ITS JUST THE SEX MAN! OMFG.

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    I'm super worried now because she thinks she's pregnant. :/

    I'll find out soon. It was worth it though

    Wait, actually. No. Ugh. Haha oh well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    I'm super worried now because she thinks she's pregnant. :/

    I'll find out soon. It was worth it though

    Wait, actually. No. Ugh. Haha oh well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    I'm super worried now because she thinks she's pregnant. :/

    I'll find out soon. It was worth it though

    Wait, actually. No. Ugh. Haha oh well.
    Why wouldn't you use protection?

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    We're 15, I love her more than anything, she told me not to. (I was like.. down there already )

    And.. SHE JUST STARTED HER PERIOD! YAY ME!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    We're 15, I love her more than anything, she told me not to. (I was like.. down there already )

    And.. SHE JUST STARTED HER PERIOD! YAY ME!
    So your trying to make a child?

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    Not at this age. I was really teasing her and I was almost in already, so she kinda just pulled me in and yeah. But I'll use condoms now, and it'll probably be better to not worry about having a kid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 99_ View Post
    Not at this age. I was really teasing her and I was almost in already, so she kinda just pulled me in and yeah. But I'll use condoms now, and it'll probably be better to not worry about having a kid.
    Another easy add, the pill as well, a super amazing add lube! Get the sperm killer stuff. It's naice.
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    I've heard the spermicide lube stuff can burn if you're sensitive.
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    Quote Originally Posted by R0b0t1 View Post
    I've heard the spermicide lube stuff can burn if you're sensitive.
    I've heard that as well.. but I think it only hurts her so...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Nava2 View Post
    I've heard that as well.. but I think it only hurts her so...
    Still... not cool... Imagine something like icy hot on your testicles.. but reverse that and you have her pain...can't easily be washed off... that's vile...
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    Instead of "chemical burn" we could call it "naturally warming".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Harry View Post
    Sex is just sex, in my eyes. Yes, you should love the person to do it, but it isn't a necessity. As long as you are using protection, I could care less.
    I agree that.
    For me sex is not only a way to pleasure myself. It's not fun with wrong person.

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    Heyy..

    I lost my virginity just after my 16th birthday, I had been in a relationship with a girl I loved for just over 3 months and we both decided we wanted to..
    and well we didn't look back..

    I guess you could say she was my special someone, she was my best friend
    and well...
    Now Well, currently were not talking (Y) and I miss her lots ^.^

    Throughout Highschool, (ages 11-16) I taught sex education, I guess I picked up alot of my views on sex and relationships there..
    I do think you should find the right person, especially for your first time..
    I think sex is special, not just a random fuck..
    But, I don't know, as I'm getting older (im 17 now lol) I guess you begin to see just how casual sex really is and stuff..

    So yeh, mixed views .

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