Any ideas :/ as I'm a wuss when it come to talking to girls :/
Help? <3
Any ideas :/ as I'm a wuss when it come to talking to girls :/
Help? <3
^^
Tell her you like her in person. It will become easier, also tell yourself that you can do it, self-talk yourself. Talking to girls will become easier, its also hard for the first time!
LOL? Are u not social or something? Not like they're going to eat u or something.. I tried to convince to so many programmers in my class that it's fine to do other stuff other than programming but no.. doesn't work so I end up feeling awkward as the only person who actually does stuff..
U should go out more or talk more or socialize more or if none of those then at least ask her to do something.. doesn't have to be sex or anything.. maybe lunch, maybe a walk in the park.. maybe a get together.. a club?.. a party?
Hate to say it but sometimes doing homework together.. well? it works and u get to show off ur smart side.
How it really works is that u get lots of friends.. they introduce u to others and so on.. Thing is.. one mistake and ur done.. cuz girls talk to each other n stuff.. go to the washroom together. lol But like said above.. just do it without thinking and don't make it awkward after u do it.. cuz that's just weird. All you gotta do is tell her.
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Just do what you heart tells you and you'll be fine.
Either she says yes and you become very happy and have a lot of funtime, or she says no and you move on and find someone else. As long as your heart doesn't think anything illegal such as rape, you'll be alright and think about it, you ask 2 girls, the posibility one says yes is twice as big than if you ask 1 girl, just keep asking until you find your other half ^.^~
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Ouch, that's the way of the million rejectionsBut it is sure the easiest one.
Instead of just ask her, you can also start flirting. Keep flirting and make sure you bring your intentions across. It also increases the change she wants you. Also as Demise said, there are more fish in the sea. No trick works guarantied. Keep trying and good luck!
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come to her, smile and tell: hey, i am *your name* how are you.
she will probly tell you that she is fine etc.. and then tell her that you like her and ask for number.
if she will give u a number start chatting her with SMS and after few chats ask her to go out with you somewhere, if you are 18+ take her to some bar, if no then go to comedy movie.
Just do it! There are plenty of girls and you don't need to waste your time trying to be perfect when someone else is more than willing to take you the way you are![]()
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How old are you? Have had the same problem when I was like 12-13 years old. It helped me a lot when I started to hang out with my friends and some girls with us. After awhile I started to feel way more comfortable and that was for me the beginning of lots of short and long relationships over the passes four years! Although I was really nervous for my first kiss, but if you start to hang around more with girls you are going to pick up why they would like you and what's the best way to act, so they like you! And then you will come to a point where you won't even get excited/nervous when you flirt as much as you can with the girl you like so much. You just know how to tole with it!
And then came for me the best moment that I have ever had in my entire life till now, I lost my virginity! My girl was hot and I really loved her! Unfortunately we broke up so i had to move to a new one. Haven't found a girl I loved like I loved her, but that will come!
So I hope you can do anything with how I figured it out! But I wish you the best, your time will come!
More details! We need to hear the entire situation! How did you meet, how do you know each other, how often do you talk/text/chat/hang out etc etc etc etc
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Just do what the legendary Hobss does when he wants a lady of fine looks: "Hey, do you wear short skirts?".
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This isn't always true, =p. Sometimes the girl will stare at you from faraway, and than when she notices your close she will pretend to not look and look the other way. Also you can tell a girl feels you when u pass her and ur looking at her, than you turn back and shes checking you out.

Never hide the fact that you like a girl, that doesn't mean to go yell it on the streets. I personally never had to say stuff like "I love you" etc, things just happened naturally. Like the lady I'm with at the moment, we met, we talked, we did things together, and somehow she came over to my place to sleep. I actually don't remember how it happened..
Do stuff together, invite her to activities she likes & that you like (facebook is great for finding these things). Find a concert of a group she likes, a movie, even a play if she's into that kind of stuff..
Oh and also, I don't know about your social position but where I live, you get lots of crap for being with someone. Immature youngsters close to you trying to poke at you with small remarks or comments that in the end will annoy you. Just don't give a damn and love on.
Also, eternal love was a concept thought of when the average man didn't live past 30.
"Hey, I'm having feelings for you, although I hope this does not make anything awkward between us. If you don't have the same feelings for me, don't worry I'll change my emotions toward you and treat you as a good friend/sister."
Good Luck!
Swear less, some girls may find swearing loads intimidating. Oh and just talk to her as you would talk to other friends, only difference is she has boobs and a v*****, be light hearted, tease her and have fun really.
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Could be worse, you could be in a country where you have to learn their language just to talk with them, let alone flirt...
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well in Mexico we do this a very very special moment, something big. for example once I wrote: Would you like to be my gf (in spanish) in a big blanket and make some friends hang it from the fifth floor. every one give an aplause, and she was so happy. other friend put some similar message on a cacke (it was the girl birthday)
if you are a more discrete people (becuase ive seen relationships change from nation to nation) you can take her to a preety place or an special place for both or for her and say u love her.
if you arent the romantic kind (in spansih: cursi, (to be to0 much romantic)) because some girls don like romantic boys, you can do it after a cool moment like a game or something out of rutine.
all depends of the kind of girl and of the kind of person you are. if you know how its her, and how you like to do things. you have love in you hand
also remmber a brave person is not the one that doesnt have fears is the one that face them.
(its normal to be nervious i had have 4 girls and ive been nervious in all situations, but its part of love and life)
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