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    Felt like that for a long time. Talking from my experience, I brought it on myself through a lack of confidence; I could speak to girls, make them laugh, even had the girl of my dreams after me at one point, but I lacked the self esteem to tell her how I felt for fear of rejection.

    What actually happened was it got to the point that I'd smoke so much that I just didn't care about anything, and the next time I spoke to her I told her everything, expecting nothing and regretting nothing. Long story short, I just got back from a couple day break in a hotel with her and we've been together for a good while. People say have fun at college but everyone's different, I'd really rather be settled, and I am, so would she, and so we match. You've gotta realise that you won't be lonely forever.. and stop taking yourself so seriously. Honestly, there's two options, confidence, or just thinking fuck it, and telling yourself you've nothing to lose. Do that, and as long as you do so with a smile it'll come off exactly the same. Realistically, if you get rejected what's the worst that can happen? You can go home, smoke and just forget about the whole deal, try again another day.


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    Quote Originally Posted by print View Post
    i feel like that im living without reason i know were in the planet for a reason but i cant seem to find happiness i think i need to find girl who understands me i mean my life isnt a failure i go to college im young 18 i do fun things but inside i dont seem to enjoy it
    i want to exist to make someone happy
    i hate feeling like this .......
    i could get stoned and enter my mind and feel the pleasure but it will never compare to the happyness i see in the eyes of happy couples i would trade all the pleasure i have ever gotton from weed,beer for true happyness


    btw your right i have no friends at college all my friends moved becouse of there college now i feel lonely ha
    Heres a friendly advice,

    Understanding your self-image and cultivating a positive self-image is an extremely important way to boost self-esteem. Think what defines you as a person, your personality, your likes/dislikes, your aims in life, your memories, your clothing, your talents/skills etc, etc. See yourself for who you are, accept it is all right to have some faults, this is unavoidable, remember nobody is perfect. Think positively about yourself, reassure, encourage and praise yourself. Be your best friend, never put yourself down!

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    Quote Originally Posted by greg0rr4 View Post
    Heres a friendly advice,

    Understanding your self-image and cultivating a positive self-image is an extremely important way to boost self-esteem. Think what defines you as a person, your personality, your likes/dislikes, your aims in life, your memories, your clothing, your talents/skills etc, etc. See yourself for who you are, accept it is all right to have some faults, this is unavoidable, remember nobody is perfect. Think positively about yourself, reassure, encourage and praise yourself. Be your best friend, never put yourself down!
    Yes! This! It sounds too good to be true but if you keep thinking positive of yourself (and in general) everything will fall into place, and life will lead itself. Remember that people want to hang with positive, happy people and not with people who drown themselfs in their self-created sorrow. Laugh, and the world laughs with you. Weep, and you weep alone.

    Mind is the Master power that moulds and makes,
    And Man is Mind, and evermore he takes
    The tool of Thought, and, shaping what he wills,
    Brings forth a thousand joys, a thousand ills


    This may seem a little far-fetched, but this is a passage from James Allen's book called As a man tinketh. It is about how you think has a massive impact on everyday life/relations with people etc. It really was an eye opening book for me. You might want to consider reading it, it's only 60 something pages. It just might do the trick for you, it has done it for me

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    Serious relationships suck at young age.. had one middle - beginning of college.. now I AM empty inside. The only emotion I feel is pretty much happy, all the time.. I don't get sad when close deaths occur, I am empty inside! I enjoy it though, most people probably wouldn't.. I talk to people on forums, ignore everyone in real life.
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    Grave dig @greg0rr4
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